Resources to Support and Navigate Relationships
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For partners, SOs, SOFFAs, wives and girlfriends of transgender and crossdressing people to discuss challenges, understand gender theory, and create community.
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/engender_partners/info
Head Over Heels: Wives Who Stay with Cross-Dressers and Transsexuals, by Virginia Erhardt. Routledge, 2006.
Available on Amazon.com.
“The Invisible Gender Outlaws: The Partners of Transgender People” by Pat Califia. Sex Changes: Transgender Politics, edited by Pat Califia. Cleis Press, 2003.
Available on Amazon.com.
Love, Always: Partners of Trans People on Intimacy, Challenge and Resilience, edited by Jordon Johnson and Becky Garrison. Transgress Press, 2015.
Available on Amazon.com.
A blog and resource page from Helen Boyd, a woman whose husband transitioned into being her wife.
http://www.myhusbandbetty.com
A discussion forum for understanding and discussing diverse transgender topics, especially within the context of established relationships, hosted by Helen Boyd.
http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/community/index.php
No longer active, but full of people telling their stories, and resources.
http://partners-of-tg.livejournal.com/
Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Binary, edited by Morty Diamond. Manic D Press, 2011.
Available on Amazon.com.
Trans People in Love, edited by Tracie O'Keefe and Katrina Fox. Routledge, 2008.
Available on Amazon.com.
Trans People’s Partnerships: Towards an Ethics of Intimacy, by Tam Sanger. Palgrave Macmillan, 2010.
Available on Amazon.com.